Have you ever reach that point where you've been taking so much sh*t in life that you're so immune to the pain? like it doesn't hurt anymore? I like to think 'if it hurts more now, it'll hurt less later' the sooner you suck up the pain the sooner you'll get used to it. Though some won't agree to it, it's my logic I guess and it's what works for me. I get told that I can be heartless at times, that I have no feelings, that I should put others before myself, to stop being selfish.. But am I really being selfish? By putting myself first instead of them and being 'heartless', I'm making them stand up on their own two feet. Teaching them not to depend on anyone with things they could solve and should be solved only by them. Some people get so used to depending on someone else that they end up being the other persons burden, although this doesn't apply to everyone, there are some instances where this is the case. And they don't get that because they're so focused on themselves that they forget that the person they're depending on has their own battle to face with no one to depend on but themselves.
